As patriotic holidays approach, many are eager to show appreciation for those who serve or have served in the military. But despite our best intentions, it is easy to mix up the meanings of Armed Forces Day, Memorial Day, and Veterans Day. Every year, we hear people thanking active-duty Service Members on Memorial Day or confusing Veterans Day with Memorial Day.  

These holidays each carry deep meaning, but for different reasons. At Soldiers’ Angels, we want to help guide everyone on how to properly recognize each of these important days.  

Armed Forces Day

Armed Forces Day takes place annually on the third Saturday in May. It was established in August 1949 to unify all branches of the military under one day of recognition. Specifically, it was dedicated to honoring those who are currently serving in the United States Armed Forces. Whether someone is on active duty in the Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Space Force, or Coast Guard, this is the day to show appreciation for their present-day service and sacrifice. 

You will often see public events like military parades and air shows. These celebrations serve to not only honor our Service Members but also help civilians better understand military life. 

Thoughtful Phrases 

• Thank you for your service.
• I appreciate your dedication to our country.
• Happy Armed Forces Day.

Memorial Day  

Memorial Day takes place annually on the last Monday of May as a solemn day to remember those who passed while serving in the United States Military. Unlike other military holidays, Memorial Day is not about thanking the living, it is about honoring the fallen. Originating in March of 1868 after the Civil War the holiday has become a national day to pause and remember those who gave their lives in defense of our freedom. 

Memorial Day is not just a long weekend or a chance for barbecues and sales. It’s a day to reflect. Many people visit cemeteries, attend memorial ceremonies, or take a quiet moment to recognize the cost of war. 

Thoughtful Phrases  

• I’m thinking of your loved ones today.
• Grateful for the freedoms we hold and for those who sacrificed.
• Remembering those who made the ultimate sacrifice.

Veterans Day

Veterans Day is held on November 11^th  each year to celebrate all U.S. military Veterans. Starting as Armistice Day, commemorating the end of World War I, Veterans Day recognizes Veterans of all conflicts. Unlike Memorial Day, which specifically honors those who died in service, Veterans Day honors the living and deceased who have served our country in uniform. 

This is the day to say thank you to your grandfather who served in Vietnam, your friend from college who was in the Air Force, or your neighbor who retired from the Navy. 

Thoughtful Phrases 

• Thank you for your service.
• Happy Veterans Day.
• We are grateful for all you’ve done for our country. 

Why These Distinctions Matter  

Understanding the differences between these three important holidays is more than just a matter of etiquette, it’s a demonstration of genuine respect for our military community. Each day serves a unique purpose. By honoring that, we ensure that the sacrifices and service of our troops are never overlooked or misunderstood. 

If you’re looking for meaningful ways to observe these holidays, volunteering is a powerful way to get involved. At Soldiers’ Angels, we offer both in-person and virtual volunteer opportunities that allow you to give back to our nation’s heroes in thoughtful, impactful ways. Whether you’re supporting deployed troops, Veterans, or military families, your efforts help honor the spirit of each holiday throughout the year. 

About the Author

Dallas Green served in the U.S. Air Force for 5 years. She began her journey with Soldiers’ Angels as a SkillBridge Marketing Intern and now continues to support their mission as a Veteran Intern while pursuing her bachelor’s degree through Arizona State University.

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