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Why Small Gestures of Gratitude Have a Big Impact on Service Members

Soldiers’ Angels is known for sending care packages, handwritten letters and cards, and morale-boosting supplies to deployed Service Members around the globe. But have you ever truly paused to imagine what it feels like to be on the receiving end of one of these small gestures of gratitude?

In this blog, we explore how selfless acts of kindness can pierce through the isolation of deployment and remind our Service Members that they are loved, appreciated, and never truly alone.

Take a Moment to Imagine What It’s Like to Be Deployed

Picture this—you’re an active-duty Marine who is deployed to a remote outpost. The heat is relentless, and the camouflage paint on your face is suffocating. You’ve worn the same uniform for days, and hot showers are a distant memory. Your warm canteen water tastes like mold, but it’s all you’ve got to hydrate with.

Officially, it’s peacetime. Yet, you find yourself in a danger zone and the mission never stops.

Your job is to patrol the perimeter of the base camp, weapon in hand, scanning for potential threats. It’s a tough job. Every day is a challenge without the basic essentials most people take for granted.  

After all, there’s no fresh pair of socks waiting in your dresser drawer. No ice-cold glass of lemonade to cut through the heat. You won’t go home to a soft pillow or a quiet room. You’re out of coffee. You eat what’s available, sleep when you can, and push through the exhaustion because that’s what the mission demands.

And the hardest part?

You can’t hug your spouse.
Your child’s laughter echoing through the house is but a memory.
You can’t call your mom just to hear her voice and be reminded that you’re still her baby, even in combat boots.

Instead, you count the days until you can return home. And, you simply endeavor to “embrace the suck.”

Now, Imagine How It Feels to Get a Care Package from An Angel

It’s been a long day out in the field. The taste of mold is fresh in your mouth. Your socks are drenched in sweat, causing blisters on your feet. As you trudge up the hill after a 24-hour shift without sleep, you think of your family and wonder what they’re doing. You miss them.  

You make your way to your bunk. Of course, it’s nothing more than a rickety cot with a poncho liner for a comforter and a makeshift pillow made from towels. Nevertheless, it’s the only space in your camouflage universe that is solely yours. You take off your boots and fall into your cot, enveloped in quiet exhaustion.

Suddenly, your name is called, shaking you from your much-needed slumber. “You’ve got a package,” the unit mail clerk announces as he sets a box at the foot of your bunk. Jolted by an unforeseen burst of energy, you jump from the rack with joyful anticipation.  

You pick up the box and pause. You hold it in your hands. It’s from a name you don’t recognize. What could it be? You rip into the package with the excitement of a child opening a gift from Santa on Christmas morning.

It’s An Unexpected Care Package Full of Goodies

At first, you can’t believe your eyes as you read the hand-written letter included in your package.

It’s from a complete stranger—someone from an organization called Soldiers’ Angels who says they will be sending you a care package and letters every month for the duration of your deployment. They thank you for your service and tell you that you are appreciated and remembered.

You slowly go through your care package in awe after admiring the effort that went into decorating it. The box includes Oreo cookies (your favorite) and tons of snacks. Furthermore, there are some new socks (thank God), and Crystal Light lemonade single-serving packs (no more moldy-tasting water—yay!). It also includes some much-needed hygiene products, and all sorts of other goodies. And coffee! Glorious, life-giving coffee!

You sit quietly for a moment, letting it all sink in. In a place where everything always feels so uneasy and uncomfortable, this care package delivers something quite rare: a sense of calm and comfort.

This small gesture of kindness is proof that you matter and that all your efforts are appreciated. You tuck the letter into your pocket like a lifeline, knowing you’ll read it again when the days get long.

For now, you savor the cookies, slip on the fresh socks, and mix a lemonade packet into your canteen. In this moment, you feel a rising sense of hope and experience a little taste of home. Life is good.

It’s enough to bring a tear to this otherwise salty Marine’s eye.

Why Your Expressions of Gratitude Matter More Than You Know

This is the power of what Soldiers’ Angels represents. We don’t just send mail—we ship morale and deliver medicine for the soul. And it’s why every card, every care package, every small gesture of gratitude matters more than you’ll ever know.

So, the next time you pack a box, write a card, or send a handwritten letter, remember this: you’re not just sending supplies—you’re sending strength. You’re reminding a weary Service Member that they are supported by a nation that cares about them. In their world— where comfort is scarce and connection is fragile—your small gesture of gratitude has a big impact.

We believe that love travels—through letters, cookies, socks, coffee, and lemonade packets. And when it arrives, it transforms a moment, a mindset, and sometimes even a mission. Keep sending that love. Keep being an Angel. Because your acts of kindness don’t just make a difference—they make all the difference.

Interested in Sending Care Packages to Deployed Service Members?

If you’ve ever wondered how to make a real difference in the life of a Service Member serving far from home, this is your moment. Whether it’s a handwritten note or a favorite snack, your selfless efforts can turn a hard day into a hopeful one.

Soldiers’ Angels makes it easy to get involved. Through our Adopt-a-Service Member program, Angel Volunteers commit to sending monthly care packages and letters to deployed troops. It’s a powerful way to show gratitude, build connection, and offer support where it’s needed most.

Ready to send some love? Learn more about becoming an Angel Volunteer here and help us remind our heroes that they are never truly alone.

About the Author

Bethany Heinesh is a proud Marine Corps Veteran living in San Antonio, Texas. Bethany holds a Master of Arts in Administration-Communication Arts from the University of the Incarnate Word and a B.A. in Public Relations (Minor Religious Studies) from the University of Houston.