Caregiving for wounded Veterans is not just a role; it’s a full-time commitment that often leaves little space for self-care. Many military caregivers spend their days and nights focused on meeting the needs of their loved one, while their well-being quietly takes a backseat. That’s where the Women of Valor program at Soldiers’ Angels steps in, offering support, encouragement, and a reminder that these caregivers are not alone.  

One of the most powerful ways to show appreciation and love for these women is by sending a Blessing Box through Soldiers’ Angels. Far more than a care package, a Blessing Box is a lifeline, a personal, tangible reminder that someone cares.

Here is a simple guide to help you create one that truly makes an impact, though there is no requirement to include every item or follow these steps exactly.  

Start with Comfort and Self-Care Items  

Being a caregiver can be physically and emotionally draining. Between medical appointments, daily care tasks, and managing household needs, caregivers rarely have the chance to pause and focus on themselves. That’s why including comfort and self-care items in a Blessing Box is so important; they encourage much-needed moments of rest and renewal.  

Having these items already on hand makes it easier for caregivers to take those small breaks they so often put off. A cozy blanket draped over the couch or a candle sitting by the bedside can serve as a gentle, visual reminder to slow down. Many caregivers would never think about buying these things for themselves, but when they are given as a gift, it becomes easier to see that self-care is not a luxury; it’s a necessity.

Add a Personal Touch

Every caregiver in the Women of Valor program has unique needs, preferences, and life challenges. Program members often share their likes, dislikes, and even what they are currently struggling with. Use this information to choose gifts that feel tailored just for them.

If someone loves reading, consider a new book. If they enjoy art, add coloring books or new colored pens/pencils. You might also include a heartfelt handwritten letter, sharing encouragement or your favorite inspirational phrases. This kind of personal touch turns the Blessing Box into more than just a gift; it becomes a genuine expression of care and connection.

Support Their Mental and Emotional Well-Being

These items help caregivers feel seen, supported, and connected to a community that understands them.

Include Practical, Everyday Helpers

Small conveniences can have a surprisingly significant impact when someone’s schedule revolves around caring for another person. These thoughtful everyday helpers can ease some of the pressure and save time during busy days. Consider adding:

• Healthy snacks for quick energy
• Reusable water bottles with lids
• Hand sanitizer or wipes

These practical touches show you have considered not only their comfort but also the demands of their everyday life.

Show Extra Care Through Presentation

Why It Matters

For military caregivers, days are long and filled with responsibilities that often go unseen. A Blessing Box is not just a package; it’s a pause and a reminder that they are valued as individuals. By thoughtfully creating one of these boxes, you are giving more than items; you are sharing moments of peace, a sense of connection, and perhaps even the start of a meaningful friendship.

Through the Women of Valor program, these small acts of kindness ripple outward, helping caregivers feel supported and reminding them that their hard work and dedication do not go unnoticed.

Ready to participate? Read more about our Women of Valor program or register to volunteer.

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